What do you think the main question I get when people find out I aged out of the foster care system and I don’t know my biological parents / family?
Yep, you guessed correctly.
Have you looked for your biological parents / family?
Here is my answer.
It usually ends in a bit of confusion because some people just can’t understand why would you not want to know.
I’m fine with the situation it is what it is and I’m good with that. Things happened for a reason.
People respond the way they do because it’s a cliff hanger / open loop. It’s a question without an answer and people want answers.
People want the loop closed.
Here is how you can use this in your talks. You can start a story and get to a really good part and say one moment I’ll get back to that in a second.
Share some additional information and then close the loop by finishing the story. Try it out because it’s a really powerful language pattern to help keep people engaged and on edge.
There is plenty more were that came from.
This is just a quick heads up on Tuesday January 25, 2022 I’m going to host a Question and Answer Session for those who have invested to be in my programs.
As a gift I will also invite some people from Facebook to be a fly on the wall.
I will only answer questions pertaining to my speaking program and the modules. I’m going to schedule it for 2 hours.
You’ll want to attend because the answer to someone else’s question may be EXACTLY the answer YOU have been searching for.
Naturally this is still a few weeks away I just wanted to give you a heads up. You will find the link to register in the P.S.
Oh yeah send your questions to this email. firstname.lastname@example.org
Have an Amazing Day and thank you for attending another episode of Eric’s Escapades.
Eric “Closing Open Loops” Anderson
P.S. You are invited to a Zoom meeting.
When: Jan 25, 2022 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Register in advance for this meeting:
After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.