How Not To Get Rejected!
While in the military a friend comes to me and says Eric lets go to the club and then proceeds to tell me he has a way to meet women with little to no effort.
He told me to just follow his lead.
We get to the club early and he says to me lets stand on the railing next to the dance floor. By the way nobody is dancing yet matter of fact it is mainly women in the club at this time.
Anyway, we are standing / talking in front of the dance floor, and I ask him why are we standing here?
He tells me this way all the women can see us. After about 10 minutes of that he says ok let’s go over here and we head to an upstairs room in the nightclub and just sit up there talking until the club gets filled up with people.
The whole I’m “complaining” saying alright lets get going” He like not yet some more time passes and we finally head down stairs and enter the main part of the club.
As we are walking down the stairs he tells me that we wont be in the room for more than a couple of minutes before some women approach us asking were did we go.
I’m like yeah right.
Sure, enough we enter the main part of the club and a couple of women approach us and asked where did you guys go, we were looking for you. I was very surprised!
Even though that was over 30 years ago I think about it today because I realize it was just a form of marketing.
Here are a couple of the marketing lessons I now know happened.
The first was not being afraid to draw attention to yourself. In our case standing in front of the entire room so everyone can see us.
The second was curiosity when the ladies asked us where did we go.
Finally, the most interesting part was there was no rejection because the women approached us, so you knew there was some interest there.
My system for meeting women was less detailed and just involved me walking up and saying hello my name is Eric. Naturally, there was some rejection with my approach BUT I do not mind rejection because I know I’m getting closer to a YES!
When it comes to sales and marketing you want to set yourself up in such a way, so you are dealing with people that have an interest in what you do and what you offer. Naturally, this saves tons of time.
One POWERFUL way to have interested people approach YOU is with FREE PUBLICITY.
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Have an Amazing Day and thank you for attending another episode of Eric’s Escapades.
Eric “Crazy Memories” Anderson
P.S. I almost forgot part of my friend system to meet women was to have lollipop in our mouth. Strange I know but my guess is it helped us stand out in some way as we were standing on the railing being seen. LOL
P.P.S. I also want to point out that my friend HAD A SYSTEM. Getting free publicity is also based on a system check out the details here.
P.P.P.S. A friend told me she saw something resembling my friends approach in the news and laughed and said Eric told me about that YEARS AGO!
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